People always make the mistake of thinking art is created for them. But really, art is a private language for sophisticates to congratulate themselves on their superiority to the rest of the world. As my artist’s statement explains, my work is utterly incomprehensible and is therefore full of deep significance. - Calvin

Thursday, June 24, 2010

As a kid I always thought people separate and stop talking only when one of them no longer exists and that's also because God intends it that way.  Nothing else can make two nice people in this nice world to act otherwise ever. Growing up has meant revision of certain facts. Unlearning and re-learning.
I know for a fact now that people do separate and they do stop talking and yes they are both alive. Not just the people who exchanged not much and only casual pleasantries but also people who have been immensely close to each other. Maybe the most close to one another. One fine day they just stop talking. Either by mutual consent or otherwise but they do and life carries on and they pretend as if it is all right. They carry on with what they have been doing. The clock ticks by the hour they called or when they got the call and they pretend everything is fine, "call whom, what". They play, they sing, they work and they carry on without telling the other person about all of it rather any of it and they pretend that this is how it was supposed to be, this is how it had always been. Familiar songs, familiar terrains pass by and they are just there unmoved and maybe unconcerned.    
While they live this life, are they the one you knew. Or is it a different person leading a different life. Do they react in the same manner, talk in the same way, laugh at the same pitch.
Would I recognize you if someday our paths crossed somewhere. Would I find you or just a faint reflection of someone I once knew?  

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